listen to the majority.
yeah, yeah, the majority isn't always right.
but when it comes to high school students, those of the male gender in particular.
listen to your best friends, those you have known for years, and whose opinions you value and trust.
listen to the fact he's a player, listen to the fact you've got better options, listen to the fact you know better, listen to the fact it doesn't matter what he does, listen to the fact the crowd says otherwise.
even when your instinct falls into infatuation. yes. not love. it doesn't exist until you get out of high school. (that's why I never post about boys. don't expect it from me, if it ever does happen, that's a pretty big deal.)
p.s. I also am one of those people that doesn't believe in love at first sight. But I promise further explanation with come at a future time. (one post at a time.)
on a happier note,
now's the season for pumpkin carving, mulling spices on the stove-top, hot apple cider and chilly nights!